About me


Welcome to WIIDLO, or in other words, What If I Don’t Like Oysters’

WiIDLO is a hub of Spirituality for anyone who is struggling to find out what they really want from life.

If you’re in a constant battle of trying to figure your shit out whilst feeling completely lost about what your purpose is, I get it. I’ve been there.

Meditation and spirituality was the thing that made me realise that I’d been searching for answers in all the wrong places.

Don’t think meditation is for you? Neither did I. In fact, spirituality was never something I considered. Now however, it’s become a huge part of my life and a massive wake up call for me.

Before we go any further, let me explain where WIIDLO came from.

The idea of WIIDLO began one day when I was thinking about one of my favourite sayings. “The world is your oyster”

It suddenly dawned on me that “what if I didn’t like oysters? What if I wanted my world to be something more than an oyster?”

Everyone else may want their world to be an oyster, I realised however that I wanted something different.

The world is your oyster…..whatever you want it to be.

My Story…

If you would have asked me a few years ago “what are your passions in life?” I would never have put down spirituality.

My guess is I would have said “nothing” followed by “I have no passions” and “I’m not good at anything.”

That’s the type of stuff I used to tell myself and somewhere down the line I started to believe it.

I went through that ‘tough stage’ we all talk about after its happened but no one discusses at the time.

I got into a good university and I graduated with a 2:1, mainly because I thought it would make me feel like I was good enough or like I had proved myself to everyone. I didn’t realise that in actual fact, I was trying to prove myself to myself. I had worn my sense of worth and my confidence to the ground.

After graduating I was still lost, I still had no idea what path to take. I knew I needed to get a 9-5 job in the city because that’s what everyone around me kept telling me. Once I had secured this what happened next? I was still depressed, I still felt like there was something missing from my life, I was so stressed out and anxious all the time (shock horror).

I realise now that I kept trying to find happiness and feel content of how society measured ‘doing well’ or being ‘successful’ not by my own measures.

I have lived my whole life truly believing that I had to measure up to someone else’s markers of success and once I realised that everyone’s definition of success was different, I felt content.

It took me a long time to find self-love and self worth.

Now that I’ve found it, I want to share it with everyone else on their journey.

Happiness is up for grabs in all shapes and sizes you just need to become clear of what you want to succeed in so that the universe knows what to do for you.

I know for some people using alternative therapies or meditation all seems like hippy “woo woo” stuff and I used to think of it like that for a while. I used to think people did it to be ‘different’ or ‘quirky’.

I’ve since discovered that it honestly does work.

Do you have a ‘what if’ scenario that you keep thinking about maybe you want to quit your job or go travelling or have a burning desire to pursue your passion?

Do you want to learn more about living a spiritual lifestyle as a millennial in the twenty first century?

Do you want to relieve your anxiety and stress from juggling your work and family life?

Do you want to help your children to develop their mental, emotional and intellectual minds?

Let me show you how to do it.

Have a look through my website where I use different techniques from neuro linguistic programming, meditation and my life experiences to help guide you to find your way.

To request an initial complimentary consultation to see how we can work together and how I can help you find your own spiritual path and find your purpose, please get in touch using the form below and lets talk.

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